This is because we begin to lose sense of the appreciation we have for the person or item and tend to stop doing the little things. If it's a cell phone, we stop cleaning it and keeping it scratch free; if it's a girl we stop telling her she's beautiful and we love her. If we were to misplace the phone we go crazy looking to find it; If the girl stops caring we go crazy trying to win her back. The key is to always appreciate the things we want most in life while we don't have it and even while we have it. That way we are always reminded of how special it is to us and will do whatever it takes to keep it feeling special and appreciated. The value of the person or item never changes, our appreciation towards them is what changes. So remember. the little things are what make up the big things, the little things matter most, the little things say the most.
We live in a disposable world. We tend to do anything and everything to achieve what we want (when we don't have it). I it holds such a high value in our minds before we posses it, but once we acquire the object or the person, we forget what it took to get it and the value slowly depreciates in our minds. When we acquire things like a cell phone,a computer, a TV; shortly after we want the newer, bigger and better model. Trading up has deprived our society of the appreciation we once had for what we worked hard to obtain. Holds true even for relationships.
This is because we begin to lose sense of the appreciation we have for the person or item and tend to stop doing the little things. If it's a cell phone, we stop cleaning it and keeping it scratch free; if it's a girl we stop telling her she's beautiful and we love her. If we were to misplace the phone we go crazy looking to find it; If the girl stops caring we go crazy trying to win her back. The key is to always appreciate the things we want most in life while we don't have it and even while we have it. That way we are always reminded of how special it is to us and will do whatever it takes to keep it feeling special and appreciated. The value of the person or item never changes, our appreciation towards them is what changes. So remember. the little things are what make up the big things, the little things matter most, the little things say the most.
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We have an inner impulse to satisfy our desires. Eat what we want, when we want to, giving no thought how much we eat. Drink what we want,when we want to, listen to audio entertainment when we want to, giving no thoughts to the words or to how long we have been listening or to how loud it is. Surf the internet, and watch video entertainment giving no thoughts to the websites we visit, the sounds and images we take in, to how long we surf or to how straining it is to our eyes. Pursue the fulfillment of our lower desires whenever we want,with whomever we want,wherever we want, for how long we want........
In this world, there is utter, uncontrollable chaos.Nothing is controlled and no one is exercising any control.No one needs anyone else as everyone is concerned only about themselves. Every one is on the brink of losing their hearing and sight due to intense and continuous exposure to loud music. television and computer monitor screen.The clothing industry is thriving because people have to buy new clothes every other day. Medical and other human service professionals are working overtime to address the near exponential rise in the demand for emergency medical care, counselling and endless therapy sessions for people suffering from IHLTCS(I have lost total control syndrome). The reason for this chaos is turning away from Almighty,our creator to satisfy our lower desires.Let it be rich or poor,No one is happy. Everybody is Under stress. Newspapers carrying the news of suicides have become the order of the day. Why do people who have all the means of good-livelihood and all the objects of enjoyment take this extreme steps?We are living in the world of TENSION. In this so called fast-spaced life and modern era, people give lesser importance to their servitude(to the creator) than their servitude and services to man. the slaves and servants of man are generally fully devoted to their employers to do the work they consider as their duty. Under the employer's instruction, they run to and fro, not even concerned about their meals-whatever little comes to hand is consumed. If you want to live peaceful life, I call you to islam.Turn yourself to ALLAH.You will be successful in this world as well as the world hereafter. Never love a woman, a man or a pet.They will all disappoint you one day. But ALLAH will never disappoint you, ALLAH is always ready to listen to your blight.Devote sometime in Tableeghi movement started by Moulana Ilyas(Rahmatullah Alaih) so that your eyes are opened before death. Man’s urges for the satisfaction hunger; sleep and sex cover the entire spectrum of his living condition on earth. They were given to man for his survival and maintenance on earth.
The hunger and thirst that man could satisfy with a loaf and a glass of water or feeling contented with what is available to him/her at ease and at hand is destroying the human edifice in a continuous process and multiplying his problems manifold, making the human life unbearable of hundreds of millions in the developing and underdeveloped countries who have little or no access to get this natural urge satisfied at peace. The colonial powers and the occupiers have robbed their natural resources ruthlessly to satisfy their own mania of ever-increasing life standard and are miserly holding their “robbed” capital shamelessly in their banks and financial holding companies. What a curse it is for the great powers of Europe and America! He needs a few hours of sleep and that he could get even lying on hard stones if he is overpowered by his tiresome work. But man went on increasing the luxuries of life. He wants luxurious houses, foam or water spring beds, air condition living rooms and sleeping piles. If he could live within the natural means available, he could live in peace. However, man is found running after these urges day in and day out, like a “mad-man”, crazy to fulfill them by hook or crook, by fare or foul means, by honest or crocked means. He never feels satisfied and always cries: more and more, creating lopsided economies in the world and in every human society, dividing it in “haves and have-nots”, affluent and deprived, rich and poor, making the scenario worst and worst with every day and night: the rich is getting richer and the poor becoming poorer even by hours. The urge that was given to man for the continuation of his species on earth through the process of procreation and the institution of marriage between man and woman has seriously been endangered by man through his perverted behavior of having sex with the same gender or committing the most heinous crime of homosexuality, a crime against human race being committed by humans for the satisfaction of his sexual urges in the most unnatural, unhealthy and shameless manner that is worse than animal behavior. Man is again misusing his freewill to satisfy his urge for sex out of wedlock thereby belittling the institution of marriage and the future of humanity at large. The freewill of man has a choice to do wrong as well as free to do good and there lies its accountability after death as how he acted, lived and behaved on earth to make it a hell or a heaven for himself as well as for his species. Accordingly, he will be punished or rewarded in the life Hereafter – the ultimate reality that each human being will face when resurrected after death. |
AuthorMan is made by his thought. As he thinks, so he is. One’s perception of his life greatly impacts his standard of living, his success and failures, the way he responds to the odd situations, the extent to which he makes his presence in the society he is living in. The prime purpose of this blog is to share my thoughts and the other parallel thoughts from external sources which interest me with the readers of my blog. Archives
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